HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO MY AMAZING SISTER MELANIE (BIG 25) AND MY SWEET BOY TRACEN (BIG 5)


So 5 years ago, I was largely pregnant with our first little baby boy. We were so excited for our family to become 3 and we were thrilled we were having a boy. When we were dating in high school, Dan randomly asked me one day if I liked the name Tracen. I thought to myself, "Yes, I do like the name but don't you think it's a bit premature to pick our kids names? We do have a ways to go before we start that." But none the less, the name stuck and our first baby boy would be named TRACEN DANIEL JACOBS. He was due on April 17th, but we had all thought it would be fun if he were born on his Aunt Melanie's B-day. So when I went into labor around 2am on April 13th we thought, "Well, we were close." I had big plans to have this baby "all natural". No drugs- nothing but me, Dan and our sweet boy. Well, Tracen obviously had "other plans". I felt like I was doing pretty good. No drugs- just me, Dan, my mom, Melanie, and some really good breathing techniques. But, after 18 hours of some pretty intense "laboring" and I was still not progressing enough for me see a very quick end, I decided I was exhausted. So it quickly became... DRUGS- Dan, my mom, Melanie and a 4 hour nap. When I awoke, I had progressed "some". But it still took another 9 hours for me to reach that blessed "10" and it was time to PUSH! Well, I was so numbed from the drugs, it took a bit to figure out when I was supposed to push. Finally Tracen crowned, but... his head was stuck. (have you noticed how big his head is?) So they tried the forcepts, and then the vacuum, but to no avail, he was not coming. So to my dismay, they decided I would have to have an emergency C-section. I was heartbroken. None of my "Big Plan" had worked. There was nothing "natural" about having my baby "cut out", but to my amazement I felt very at peace. Anything to get our baby out safe and healthy. So after 29 hours of this (don't worry my other 2 boys came much quicker), our sweet boy TRACEN DANIEL JACOBS was born weighing a healthy 7lbs 10oz and 21 inches long. He had lots of curly light brown hair on top a very large noggin. :) He had held out to share his Aunt Melanie's B-day on April 14, 2003. He also has a rare genetic "hole" (a small indent) located above his ear just like Melanie does. This little feature is a Stratford gene that some of my dad's sisters and their kids also have. I believe my Grandma Stratford had it also.
Anyway, Tracen is now 5 years old and very excted to go to Kindergarten. He has always been very smart for his age. (I'm the mom, I can brag- right?) He walked across the room on Christmas day at 8 months old and he hasn't stopped. He has a very active, strong little body and a mind to match. He never stops asking questions and loves learning. He is a great big brother to Tyler and Tate. He is constantly teasing Tyler and "eating" Tate. We love you Tracen so much and are so happy to have you in our family.
To celebrate this big day, Tracen actually got 3 different parties! The first party was with the Jacobs side. Leo and Tricia were in town from Spain so we decided to celebrate Tracen's, Sammy's (cousin) and Uncle Joel's B-days while we were all together.
We had a BBQ and Christy made a scrumptious from scratch chocolate cake. Tracen and Sammy wanted a Harry Potter with spiders B-Day cake. I think Christy did a great job and the boys loved it.

We then opened presents, and took some fun pictures with grandma and grandpa and the boys wearing their matching shirts grandma and grandpa had brought them from Rota Spain.



The next party was with the Stratford side where we celebrated Tracen's and Melanie's B-days. We actually had 3 different cakes. We had a very yummy homemade ice cream cake and a delicious German Chocolate cake that Ty had made for Melanie and then I made Tracen some "B-day brownies with 2 4-wheelers driving in the mud that I can take home"(per his request).


The 3rd party was on his actual B-day. He had requested to go out to eat at I-Hop. So we did. And... because Sammy was heartbroken that he couldn't be with Tracen on his "real B-day", Christy and boys (Bruce was out of town) met us there. Tracen said he wanted a "happy face pancake". Now, what he didn't realize is that there are 2 choices of "happy face pancakes". One that makes the face with chocolate chips and whipped cream, and one that makes it with strawberries, bananas, and yogart. I didn't ask him (my mistake) which one he wanted. Instead, I being a health conscious mom made the decision for the "healthier choice". When the food arrived, it was obvious that he had hoped for the chocolate chip face when he said,
"Mom, look. They double crossed me again!" Well, I think Tracen still had a great B-day weekend and is thouroghly enjoying every gift he recieved. Thank you to everyone's generosity.